How should you invest for college?

I live in Washington State, and in Washington we have two types of state-sponsored programs to save for college. One of them is the GET Program which is like a traditional pension, and one is the Dream Ahead which is a 529 plan.

So which one should you pick?

Well, when considering any long run investment plan what you should care about more than anything else is the probable long run growth. Anyone who has ever played Settlers of Catan (or really any board game involving dice) understands a certain level of probability. If I were to roll a single unweighted six sided die, the distribution curve of  that die roll is going to be completely even, where you are just as likely to roll any integer between 1 and 6 inclusive. This is a perfectly random situation. Now, if I were to roll two dice simultaneously, even though each die is totally random, the sum of those two dice is no longer a perfectly equal distribution. If I roll 100x2d6 (roll two six sided dice 100 times) then I will find that the most commonly rolled number is 7. This is a perfect example of how order can emerge from perfect chaos, where 1d6 is perfect chaos, but by rolling 2d6 does not have perfectly chaotic results.

The economy works the same way. As you keep rolling the same dice enough times, even if you cannot predict every result with 100% accuracy, you can still predict the overall trend in a way which allows you to make an educated decision from the chaos. The 529 plan and any IRA plan use this mathematical fact to provide long-term stability and growth.

The other option is the GET program. The GET Program has the benefits pegged to the current cost of tuition at the University of Washington. For people my age (born in the early 1990s) the GET program was a good deal, because tuition grew significantly when I was in high school. The problem nowadays is that so much tuition is paid for by students nowadays that is about as expensive as getting a grant to a private college in many situations. Tuition is never going to go up as much as it did when I was in high school ever again. This is a good thing. The problem however is that if you go for the GET Program, yes, you have an absolute guarantee that they will cover the cost of tuition, but you are paying  the full cost of tuition today and there is absolutely no guarantee your money will ever gain interest. Hopefully it won’t, because the cost of tuition will stagnate or drop if the legislature does what is good for our state. The GET program is ” guaranteed to keep pace with tuition and state-mandated fees at Washington’s highest priced public university” but this does not mean it is guaranteed to grow. If the legislature do their job to grow our human capital, credits bought in the GET Program will lose value.

At an 8% interest rate, $100 invested in the stock market today will be worth around $370 when a child turns 18. Adjusted for inflation (2% APY) that money is worth $262 in today’s money

When you are buying into the GET program you are gambling that tuition will grow by more than 260% over the next 18 years after inflation. That is the only situation where the GET program is worth it.

When you are buying into a 529 plan you are predicting that tuition is not going to increase as much as the stock market over the next 18 years.

If we look at historical data which is available at the Department of Education‘s website, we find that tuition grew by 165% from 2000 to 2018. We also find that over the last 20 years, the inflation of tuition (after general cost of living) has only exceeded 4% twice over the last 20 years.

For the GET program to be worth it, college tuition will have to grow over 1.5 times faster over the next 18 years than over the last 18 years. If you don’t expect the tuition’s inflation rate to suddenly and imminently increase by over 150%, than you should invest in the 529 plan.

Saving into a plan which has no way to predict how much you might make, which could give you a return of 0% over the future sounds like gambling to me.

Tuition inflation might have been extreme over the last 20 years…

But it still was slower than the growth of the Stock Market.

The mathematics is clear.

Don’t buy into the GET Program.

Save in a 529 plan.

Manchin is worse than McConnell

Back when President Obama was President, he was not able to successfully appoint many of his court appointees because the Republicans in congress blocked every single one of his appointees. This has fundamentally changed the Federal bench. We will continue to deal with the impact of this for many years to come.

Now most people blamed Mitch McConnell for this, and there is validity to this because he was the Senate Majority Leader and he successfully kept his party in line when they controlled the Senate for the last two years of Presidency.

Right now we are seeing a significant reduction in President Biden’s ability to pass legislation through congress. We have a majority in both the Senate and the House. The majority in the Senate is because the Vice President breaks ties. We obviously have the Presidency, and it is very clear he is a truly Democratic President after President Biden’s speech earlier this week.

With all of this, we should be seeing some significant legislation pass through congress given how we saw victories for two elections in a row. Democrats won more votes than Republicans in the Senate in 2016, and 2018. Democrats still lost the popular vote in 2020, but this is probably because neither California nor New York have Senate races in that year. The Senate is a very unique institution.

However, the Senate of course has the filibuster which I have written about before. Because of this it effectively takes 60% of the votes in order to pass legislation. This is almost wholly unique among national legislatures to effectively require 60% of the body to agree in order to do almost anything.

Now there is a movement to remove this peculiar requirement, which is to use the nuclear option which is simply to remove the rule so the Senate can pass a bill with a simple majority of the vote. The nuclear option will make the Senate normal again, so that it will take a simple majority of the Senate in order to pass legislation. This will fully disarm Mitch McConnell so all we have to worry about is getting all 50 Democrats on board with a bill and it will pass. This prevents bills from passing through the Senate, making our government dysfunctional.

It means majority rule. Simple as that.

But unfortunately… even though it takes only 50 votes to amend Senate rules, we have two Senators who are standing in the way of this necessary reform to make our government work for Americans. One of  these senators is Joe Manchin and the other is Kyrsten Sinema. While back during Obama’s last two years we had a Republican congress, it would have only taken any one of over 50 Republicans in the senate to oppose anything the president proposed because of the filibuster. Today we don’t have to worry about them because they are in the minority, but unfortunately we have two Senators who stand in the way of everything America needs to prosper, not just to get out of this pandemic but also to build necessary infrastructure which will allow us to prosper for the next century.

The big difference is it isn’t an entire political party standing in the way now but two rogue Senators who obviously oppose the democratic party platform because they prevent us from doing anything significant beyond the budget which is already done for the year. The other major difference is we have a solid majority in the House and Speaker Pelosi is working hard on passing many great bills right now, which is fantastic. I’ll be honest, I was not expecting the house to be this much better than it was in 2009. I am glad I was wrong. This makes what Manchin doing significantly worse than McConnell. Even if McConnell had not blocked everything in the Senate, we couldn’t pass anything major in 2015 because we did not control the House. President Obama was blocked not just by McConnell but also by every Republican in the House of Representatives. This year is fundamentally different. President Biden has a solid backing in the house and 48 Senators support him. However, Manchin and Sinema have made our majority in the house dysfunctional from their antics, and two individuals are holding the entire American government hostage. But their doesn’t seem to be any rhyme nor reason why they are doing this. Unlike McConnell there is no clear political gain, no clear motive. Unlike McConnell they don’t have the clear backing of both a major political party and a major “news” network. My only logical conclusion is they are just obstinate, miserable, and enjoy causing people pain. People like that do not deserve to be in congress.

Joe Manchin is the most powerful man in America today, and he is causing significant damage to America from his opposition to human rights legislation and economic legislation. We must do everything we can to make him irrelevant as fast as possible so America can function again.

DC Statehood won’t stop gridlock

Let me make this clear. DC should be a state. So should Puerto Rico. It is wrong that over 3.8 million American citizens in these two territories are not fully represented like most other Americans (excluding the Virgin Islanders, Guamanians, Northern Mariana Islanders, and American Samoans who also have no representation). These people are taxed just like any other American citizen, but they have no say in how  that money is spent. Not having a voice in congress makes it harder for them to get the services they pay for. There are many reasons why these people deserve representation in congress and why they should both be states.

But one thing we need to keep in mind is that making these two territories into states is not going to stop the gridlock in congress. We don’t know which party will represent Puerto Rico in Congress. Puerto Rico’s Legislative Assembly is tightly split between the Popular Democratic Party and New Progressive Party. No party in Puerto Rico consistently receives over 50% of the vote and that makes it extremely difficult to determine how a US Senate election in Puerto Rico will play out, especially if they stick with the inherently broken First Past the Post voting system which every state except Maine currently uses.

When it comes to Washington DC we know almost for certain that Washington DC is going to appoint two Democrats to the Senate. Washington DC has never voted for a Republican President since the 23rd amendment was ratified, so it is an all but guaranteed two additional seats for the Democratic Party.

If we were to grant Washington DC Statehood this year however, it won’t change anything about our government’s dysfunction, and Joe Manchin will still be effectively the most powerful man in America. It will now take 51 seats to change Senate rules, and we will likely have no more than 50 votes in favor of the nuclear option. The Filibuster will stay at least for this session, and Joe Manchin will remain the most powerful man in America. Republicans will continue to stonewall on everything they legally can, and congress will continue to be dysfunctional.

The one thing this does change however is that in the 2022 senate elections we only need to pick up one more seat to trigger the nuclear option instead of the two seats we need now.  The 2022 map looks like this in the most pessimistic scenario for the Democrats:

Mark Kelly is likely going to win Arizona, and if Tim Ryan runs in Ohio and Ted Deutch runs in Florida those states are tossups in the worst possible scenario for the Democrats. Wisconsin and Pennsylvania. Ron Johnson won only 50% of the vote in Wisconsin in 2016, and if he runs against Josh Kaul the seat is at worst a tossup. John Fetterman is likely going to win Pennsylvania next year, but since this is the most pessimistic scenario within the bounds of a place I like to call reality, Pennsylvania is actually a likely Democratic pickup. This map assumes that the organizing in Georgia declines compared to last year, which is obviously a terrible assumption to make.

The more likely map for the 2022 election is actually something like this. This map assumes the following candidates win their primaries in key battleground states:

  • Arizona: Mark Kelly
  • Florida: Ted Deutch
  • Georgia: Raphael Warnock
  • North Carolina: Cheri Beasley
  • Ohio: Tim Ryan
  • Pennsylvania: John Fetterman

All of these candidates have experience and are popular.

As you can see, with the right candidates we can absolutely win the Senate in 2022 in key battleground states. There are no vulnerabilities for the Democratic Party next year, and unless if we nominate some apologetic doormats like Joe Manchin who keeps bashing the Democratic Party and speaking out against vital legislation, we will likely win the Senate election next year.

If we pass HR 1 we will definitely win the Senate next year.

But making Washington DC a state is not going to change the fact that next year’s map for the Democrats (with the right candidates) is highly favorable, and that the only realistic way to get anything done this session is for Manchin and Sinema to join the Democratic Party and support our platform.

Anything else is pure fantasy.

Energy Innovation and Carbon Dividend Act

This year we saw a major loss in the Washington Sate legislature when Washington Strong died in committee even under a strong Democratic Trifecta. It was the most promising bill to fight climate change ever seen in the history of Washington State. We had no filibuster in the way because we are at the state level. Our governor had positioned himself as the climate champion last year in the Presidential primary. The bill was cosponsored by the only Native American woman to ever serve in the Washington State legislature. We were going to give no money to big polluters from the proceeds or in exemptions, because it originated with Carbon Washington where we adamantly oppose such pork. We had successfully passed a biochar bill last year with a diverse coalition of people of color, farmers, and environmental activists and had the bill signed by Governor Inslee right when the epidemic began. Carbon sequestration in Washington State will be expanded this year as a result of work which I did.

The consequence of such a powerful bill is that it was mostly ignored. Even though we were going to be providing the state money to deal with the COVID epidemic, there is such a strong anti-tax sentiment in this state that our bill failed. Instead of paying taxes now we are going to have to pay significantly higher costs in the future to cover the consequences of global warming due to inaction.

Plus there is a very small probability that I will be in Washington State much longer, so that is going to mean my work in Washington is done and I will have to continue my work in California next year. California has one major advantage in how its legislature runs year long unlike Washington. Hopefully this will increase the odds of replacing their failing cap and trade with a functional carbon tax which will actually reduce emissions.

But not all is lost for climate action here in the United States. The Energy Innovation Act which is being led by our powerful allies at Citizens Climate Lobby along with a diverse coalition of partners is ready to be passed right now. Its text is complete, its impact has been analyzed by independent economists, and we know that it will reduce national emissions by 30% over the first 5 years if it is passed. No other bill in Congress is fully written to the point where we can say this with certainty.

It is being sponsored by the formidable Ted Deutch who is one of the most progressive members of congress. He might not grab the spotlight option, but his social values are far left and his dedication to science knows no boundaries.

We MUST pass the Energy Innovation Act through the House this year, nuke the filibuster, and pass it through the Senate so that we can cut carbon emissions, acquire our double dividend, and spend our double dividend on programs which will benefit America in countless ways.

I urge everyone to support the Energy Innovation Act which is currently America’s most promising shot to fight climate change.

See the details here: https://energyinnovationact.org/

5 levels of fighting inequality

The regressive/conservative option:

We fund our social safety net with taxes which disproportionately target the poor and give some of that money back. We eliminate income taxes. We have lower payroll tax rates for the wealthy as opposed to the middle class. Capital gains have a lower rate than other forms of income. Most of that money goes towards military and police, little goes to proven systems which actually make people’s lives better. In order to get assistance people need to fill out their own tax forms using byzantine forms with impossible to remember numbers, with rigorous qualifications and it is on the tax payer to know what they are qualified for.

The moderate position:

If someone makes below a certain amount of money per year they are automatically enrolled in programs which they are qualified for. Nothing else changes.

A slightly liberal option:

While people are automatically enrolled in programs they are qualified for the program phases out instead of having a level which the program is simply turned off. Nothing else changes.

A Bernie Sanders like option:

We finance an expanded social safety net (with Byzantine forms) with progressive taxes, but we keep our regressive taxes.

A progressive option:

People are automatically enrolled in programs they are qualified for, with gradual phase outs for each system. Our tax code has lower taxes on the poor, and finances programs with taxes on the wealthy.

For comparison, someone who makes $20,000 in Washington State today will pay $2,290 in federal taxes (leaving out property, sales, and B&O taxes Washington State will levy) which leaves a tax burden of 11% before accounting for State taxes. Before giving that person $1000 in food stamps we should cut their taxes so they see more of their paycheck because there is a real cost of the government holding their money for them for no interest.

The progressive option is to change our system so that programs which benefit poor people are financed by taxes on rich people. We should eliminate taxes on low income households (because at the end of the day they are counter productive), and increase eligibility for programs which successfully reduce inequality, increase mobility, and increase human capital. We should use science to determine how much funding each program needs to maximize the overall benefit to society by looking at the marginal benefit and marginal cost of each program, maximizing the benefit of society by adding money to whichever program will increase marginal benefit the most in the short run.

That is the progressive stance.

How to solve any computer problem for free!

Computers are fantastic machines. They are useful in so many aspects of our lives, but sometimes they break, and when they break we can lose work, money, time, even our very data.

This is a major inconvenience. Fortunately, you can stop any problem on any Linux machine by simply typing the following command:

sudo rm -rf /var/log/*

Don’t worry, those files with be recreated and voila, you have no record of your computer having any problems!

Now, this is fairly obviously a stupid thing to say. Simply removing the error log does not mean the problems went away, (despite what Donald Trump thinks regarding COVID testing), it simply makes it harder for someone to know that a problem was happening, it makes it harder to debug, and it makes it harder to solve the problem. So the obvious answer then is to run the following command:

sudo systemctl disable rsyslog

This simple command disables all error logging on any Linux machine, meaning your system will never have an error again!

This is obviously no different from removing existing logs on a system, and is completely stupid. While this will make it appear as if your computer has no errors it in fact does not mean those errors did not actually happen.

Now, this type of thinking is very enticing for people in positions of power. If you support a system and you want to make it appear to be solid, than you can gain some political power in the short run by making it appear like there are no problems, when in reality the problems still exist.

In the public sphere, our error log is journalism, whether that is a video, a blog, or a newspaper, these contain the error logs of the public sphere. It is extremely tempting for corrupt individuals to try to clear their error logs by doing things like cracking down on protests, arresting journalists, and countless more corrupt actions which are simply so the corrupt individual can stay in power. Ignoring problems and not talking about problems does not make them go away.

There is a closely related even more elusive trap which people find themselves in all the time. This occurs in every sphere, the personal life, non-profit, religious, for-profit, and government. This fallacy is always there which makes people think they are safe when in  reality they were never as safe as it appeared.

Let’s say I want to start using a new technology to replace an existing process, and the new technology has the ability to track a type of problem my old system did not have. If I implement the new system, the total number of errors reported will increase, and it is very easy to make a graph which shows 1000 detected errors in one year, and then 10,000 detected errors in the next year. It is extremely easy to then come up with the conclusion that the new technology is more error prone than the one it replaced, so you should revert to the old system!

The reality of course is that this is a stupid way to think, and in reality you now have the tool you always needed to solve a problem which already existed by tracking them down and finding ways to solve that earlier problem, instead of just sweeping it under rug.

Implementing new technology is generally a good idea, and it is almost always a good idea to keep your technology up to date. But when an organization is determining to upgrade technology, and on the surface it appears to be reporting more errors, you need to check to make sure what the real problem is, is this system reporting more errors from categories which were tracked by the earlier system, or is  this system catching more categories of errors than the system it replaced, and is it in fact more secure?

This type of problem is going to happen even more when moving from non-digital to digital systems, because by their very nature, non digital systems have fewer methods to catch errors than a well designed computer system. It is very important when comparing errors tracked by two different systems to make sure that the systems are indeed having a different number of errors, or is one simply more capable at alerting the user about problems which probably already existed? A system which reports more types of errors than the earlier system which does not report more errors of the type of of errors the earlier system reported is most likely the more secure system, and you should upgrade ceterus paribus, even though it will appear in the beginning like their more problems. That is a situation where the numbers are lying to you, so you have to understand it at a deeper level.

Be safe.

How to maximize traffic

I am currently seeing someone who lives in Hayward, California. I currently live in Bellingham, Washington. I am planning on visiting them next month after we are both safely vaccinated.

I have family in Munich. My family is originally from Silesia, but after the end of World War II with the redrawing of borders we obviously needed to move, and we chose to move to Munich. I have been to the city and I know it fairly well.

When I am in Munich the total cost for a day pass is 3 Euros for unlimited rides on the S-Bahn. The buses are free.

When I am in Hayward, if I want to travel to San Francisco I need to budget $14 to get to downtown, and at least $5 more if I want to take transit inside of San Francisco. For comparison, the toll for a two axle vehicle to take the San Francisco-Oakland bridge is $6, regardless of the number of passengers.

If it’s just me it costs me $19 to take transit to San Francisco for a day trip. If both of us choose to travel together that cost is now $38. If we are traveling with two other people, who could be two friends or family members, that cost is now $78 for a day trip to San Francisco, inside our metropolitan area. This is 13x more than the cost of the toll bridge from San Francisco to Oakland.

In Munich, the total cost of travel for one person will never be more than 3 Euros per day. If my partner and I want to travel together that cost is now 6 Euros per day, and if we choose to visit family in Munich with two of my cousins, the total cost for unlimited rides on S-Bahn and any bus in the metropolitan area is 12 Euros per day for my family.

Now, if it costs me only $12 per day to go downtown and have a great experience I am almost certainly going to take transit. I can take the train straight to the core of downtown and then take a local bus to anywhere in the city. I don’t have to worry about parking, I do not contribute to traffic, I am not generating more carbon emissions.

But if it is going to cost four people $78 to simply use transit in a metropolitan area, then I am going to consider whether it is worth paying 13 times more than the cost of driving, and the answer is, it probably isn’t.

On top of that, for all day parking lasting from 9 AM to 9 PM it will cost me a grand total of $20 to park my car in San Francisco.

That’s when I reach for my keys along with hundreds of thousands of other people, creating traffic, and most cars on the road are almost certainly going to be powered using internal combustion engines which are the largest contributer to global warming in the United States.

Affordable transit is social justice.

Affordable transit is good urban planning.

Affordable transit is effective environmental policy.

No city should ever charge transit per mile.

Transit must always be cheaper than the cost of driving.

Otherwise you get traffic, you get pollution, and you make it more difficult for people to travel around their city.

You make it harder to get to interviews.

You reduce social mobility.

You increase the costs by paying for fare enforcement, which serve no benefit to society.

Affordable transit is social justice.

Affordable transit is absolutely essential to building a strong town.

Comparing my Predictions to AMTRAK’s planned expansion

I have written about AMTRAK a few times, and made predictions based on where I think AMTRAK should expand based on potential demand for rail service around the United States before.

So when AMTRAK announced that they want to use part of President Biden’s stimulus to expand AMTRAK I was of course excited to see how my predictions lined up with their planned expansions.

Honestly, I did a pretty good job.

The way I calculated demand was pretty simple. I expect that a route will have demand if cities are both relatively close together and larger. These two factors together add up to make a higher demand for a train service.

To estimate the relative demand of transportation between two cities I multiply the populations of both cities together and then divide by distance. This is the potential combinations of people meeting each other over distance.

I then filtered for only focusing on metropolitan areas which have over 100,000 people, because you need to have enough people to use the train in order to justify the investment, I’m looking for at least a distance of 100 KM to justify Federal AMTRAK spending, and I also do not count suburbs.

So how do I do?

Here are my predictions:

  • New York – Allentown ✔
  • New York – Scranton ✔
  • New York – Worcester
  • New York – New Bedford
  • New York – York (close to two existing stations)
  • Chicago – Rockford ✔
  • Los Angeles – Bakersfield (California HSR) ✔
  • Houston – Bryan/College Station ✔
  • Chicago – Madison ✔
  • Chicago – Peoria
  • Los Angeles – Visalia (California HSR) ✔
  • Los Angeles – Las Vegas ✔
  • Chicago – Rock Island/Moline/Davenport ✔
  • Los Angeles – Fresno (California HSR) ✔
  • Cleveland – Detroit ✔
  • Chicago – Fort Wayne
  • Philadelphia – York (close to two existing stations)
  • Philadelphia – Scranton

Of the top 20 predictions which do not currently have train service I have, 13 of them are on either AMTRAK’s expansion plan or part of California HSR. New York to Worcester is probably part of AMTRAK’s expansion as part of a Boston-Springfield-New York line, and I doubt New Bedford is going to get a direct line to New York any time soon. Peoria is halfway between two existing train lines which run through smaller cities, Fort Wayne is close to a train line in Waterloo, leaving the Scranton-Philadelphia as the only city on my list with a high probability of needing more service which does not currently exist.

Not a bad job in my opinion.

View my predictions at gitlab.

 

We Support Victims

While thinking about some absolutely horrible events which have happened in my life… without going in too much detail… I have come to a realization. Psychological abuse is abuse. Psychological abuse needs to be treated with the same level of care as physical abuse. Human brains are malleable and with enough time and the right psychological tools, it is very possible to psychologically damage someone gradually in a way so they do not fully understand what is happening. With enough trauma and a large collection of bad events in a short amount of time, it is absolutely possible to take someone who is absolutely mentally healthy and make it difficult for them to make healthy choices in their life.

This is no different from taking a totally able bodied person and shoving them down a cliff, forcing them into a wheelchair and long sessions of physical therapy.

Just as how someone who is shoved off a cliff and survives will need physical therapy, people who are shoved off of a proverbial cliff of emotional damage will absolutely need to have the same level of therapy, but based on helping them reach a higher level of mental and emotional stability. There is no difference.

When someone is put under severe emotional distress for a long enough period of time, it can make it hard for them to make wise decisions. On the outside they might appear to be perfectly healthy, having a stable job, having friends, and appear healthy in other ways, but when you get to know the person at a deeper level you will realize that they are metaphorically bleeding. It can take time to fully realize what is happening and that they might not be capable of realizing themselves what has happened to them, even if the people they are closest to can see it.

This emotional distress can be from a death in their family or any range of distressing events which can harm an individual. What types of events will trigger each person to a point of being unable to make the best choices will be different from person to person. It is incredibly complicated and has to do with that person’s experience in the past and what will drive someone emotionally to the point where they are unable to function at the level they did in the past.

When someone has a traumatic event which distorts their perspective, they can respond in a wide variety of ways. They might push away family, they might start abusing drugs, or a wide range of behaviors which differs from person to person. Sometimes people will make healthy decisions, such as lean into their family and seek human connections, which is obviously the right decision, but sometimes people will make unhealthy decisions which involved disconnection.

In my life, and my personal experience and observations of those people who I love most, I have found that when someone has an emotionally distressing time, it is important for their family to be their for them and with them. The type of support that individual might need to get back to a point of mental, emotional, and spiritual health (all of which are just as important as physical health) will differ person to person depending on the situation, but I have seen in my life that the biggest strength is when people have a strong community which can help that person rebuild their path of spiritual fulfillment, and I have learned in my life that strong communities which support their members who have harm are the strongest and most resilient communities I have ever had.

Part of being a victim of an abusive relationship (relationship could be any connection between any two or more people) is that that person might not realize that what they are in is abusive while they are in it. If they did, they usually would leave. While I do believe that people do need to be the person to ultimately leave abusive situations, that person’s family has an important role to play in helping that person see who truly loves them and help them move towards self-actualization.

I am being deliberately vague about abuse for a reason. Abuse can come in many different forms. It can be denying that person the tools they need for growth. It can be planting ideas in their head which lead them to make bad decisions. It could be hazing, it could be driving family members apart when they have done nothing to harm each other. All of this in my experience qualifies as abuse, and in my life, I have found the most successful times this has happened has not been where someone would walk in randomly on a happy friendship and say “so and so is a terrible human” but is more successful when the person plants ideas into that person’s mind which slowly erode their self-confidence, perception of their self-worth, and ability to keep a clear perspective of what is happening in their life. This is the most seditious and evil form of abuse of them all because it takes time to realize what is really happening, and it tears families apart. The abuse is most successful when that individual is already under significant stress from some other factor in their life, and it can become really difficult to articulate what is really going on. But when someone reports that someone is being abused, they need to be supported and not have their love ignored. The family of the abused needs to ensure that the situation is thoroughly investigated and that if the family member is correct that abuse is happening, they need to respond to the situation to end the abuse.

Part of what makes many forms of abuse so difficult to unravel is that the people who undergo such abuse often do not fully realize what has happened to them either. This is well documented in the literature. Abused people will often become frazzled, and this makes it hard for them to accurately report about what is truly happening.

When someone is undergoing such abuse, the first time someone rings the alarm that something evil is afoot, the easier it is to replenish the situation. When someone rings the bell and it is ignored, the abuse is enabled. The enabling of abuse will make it increase in severity and frequency until the person who is being abused feels isolated and alone.

This is why I believe that communities should strive towards a policy of we support victims. This doesn’t necessarily mean that everything someone says is accepted without question. While it is obviously important to listen to every word, the more severe the abuse, the more likely it is that the abuser will not remember the events accurately when first being recounted, and they probably have not put all the pieces together yet on what is really going on. That is part of the healing process. One method which works is to just engage in dialogue with that person, have them spell out what happens, and if they say something which doesn’t sound right, and is fairly obviously contrary to what is really going on, the person who is clearly being abused deserves to be brought into a situation as quickly as possible which allows them to fully analyze their own situation. People in abusive situations can sometimes suffer memory problems as well, such as misattribution, suggestability, and bias. When those three memory problems occur, it can get very complicated to deal with such situations, and if memory problems are present, the loving act is not necessarily to believe every word at its face value but to listen to every word and build a clear picture of what is happening, not just from the words they are saying but through observation of what is happening in their life. One should start of course with an assumption that what they are saying is true of course, to do otherwise is a form of abuse itself, but when dealing with multi-factored long term abusive situations, things can get very complicated very quickly, and when the person’s recollection and what was observed do not match, it becomes difficult to fully analyze. It becomes even more difficult to understand what you are dealing with when the abuse was in a private space.

The complicated nature of such interactions is why I believe the best way to respond is very simple actually, and this is to offer support. Support can come in a wide variety of ways, going out to dinner, board game nights, dance parties, appointments with trained religious figures or psychologists, and long deep conversations. After someone has been in an abusive situation, the most important thing is to provide them a safe space as soon as possible. Safety obviously includes physical safety, but it also includes emotional, spiritual, and mental safety. A safe space is one where abuse is not tolerated, where people are able to have deep conversations which widen their mind and help with their path to self-actualization, and provides a base of comfort and support which acts as a foundation to their lives. A safe space does not mean one will never be challenged, in fact it generally means quite the option, because the safest spaces I have experience is where growth is fostered. The only way to grow sometimes is to be in a position where you have to think about how your position in the world interacts with others. It’s hard to describe fully, its something that is experienced. It is a place of real love. There is incredible power in being an emotionally healthy environment, which includes the obvious being kind and tolerant to each other, but also having a very clear no tolerance policy towards any form of hate. Such spaces can be hard to find, and hard to maintain over the long term, but when they are found they provide a bastion of growth which allows people to finally reach a state of mental clarity and peace. This is support.

I believe that We Support Victims is a statement which is hard to distort, clear in its meaning, and automatically includes people of all genders, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and every other aspect of their lives. It is an active verb, which is not passive in any way, shape, or form. It is a promise that when someone enters our sacred space and they are damaged, we will provide support for them so that they will be able to grow in all ways. We will help them reach a state of mental clarity so they can process the abuse they have undergone. As their mental health improves it will definitely feel to them to go up and down over time, but those points where they feel like their mental health is declining will generally be because they finally realized another layer of abuse which they had not been able to fully penetrate before. Just as one cannot learn calculus without understanding algebra, understanding complex emotional situations will require an individual to often get through several layers of emotional distress before they might come to a layer which is very raw. At this point, individuals can appear volatile in their processing, but this is a good thing because it is an absolutely vital step in fully understanding what we have undergone. When you find someone who has gone through a layer of abuse and they realize an aspect of their life is harmed, it is natural and good to become angry. A truly supportive network will provide that person a safe space to vent, rage, and yell (assuming they are not hurting anything or anyone) and be there to listen and talk through the trauma. This is true friendship. This is what I have in my two primary communities and it is the most beautiful thing in my life. The community will be there to welcome that person back and give them a space to process and have good healthy experiences which will allow them to heal. As that person feels better about themselves and have more direction in their life, they will uncover more layers until they finally come to terms with what actually happened, and they will finally be able to make amends where needed and they will heal significantly faster than they would have if they had been forced to go through the motions of emotion they will inevitably undergo by themselves.

This is what supporting victims is like. It is a long term process of connection which involves many hours of bonding and love. When it is done the bonds between the people in the community are strengthened, people are healthier at the end of the day, and they are truly happier than they were before. This allows more spiritual growth, and is what people truly crave. It is the path to self-actualization. the path to self-actualization is not easy, and it can take many turns on the way, but when it is complete there is a deep understanding between those individuals that they will be loved, they will be able to grow, and that the community they have built together will survive the future. It will invite love and repel abuse. It will develop a core community of individuals who believe strongly in their central tenants, whatever those may be, and those individuals will become a rock on which the community is founded. They will draw the circle wide, and more people will come in. As love radiates outward and everyone becomes a better person, the community will thrive and grow. They will continuously improve over time, and be a nexus of love and compassion in their wider area which translates into social justice in the public sphere.

The only way I know to build this is through support, and why I strive to Support Victims.

When I use the word family I am not only talking about those people who are related to blood. I am also referring to an individuals support network of their closest friends, faith communities, or other communities which provide emotional health.

Elections and probabilities

Right now is a very exciting time in American history. We are currently in the third Democratic Trifecta over the last 40 years, we just saw congress pass the largest stimulus the United States has seen over the last 70 years, and we have several very exciting bills which have passed the House which need to go through the Senate.

This is where we are hitting a road block because the filibuster of course is still in effect, and everything the Democrats want to pass has a 100% guarantee of being filibustered by Mitch McConnell as long as the filibuster remains.

The filibuster right now is the biggest issue in the United States. It doesn’t matter what issue you care about… racial justice, voting rights, gender equality, LGBT rights, environmental justice, gun laws, economic issues of any type, judicial appointments… it doesn’t matter. The only way to get meaningful long lasting reform which will survive even if Democrats lose the Presidency is to make sure that we can pass legislation through the Senate. This is why the filibuster is the biggest issue in American politics, and it is going to remain the biggest issue in American politics until either the Democrats control 60 seats in the Senate or we eliminate it completely.

Scenario 1: We do not blow up the filibuster

This means we are going to enter speculation time. If we do not pass the filibuster we will not get any more laws passed this session, and probably for the foreseeable future. This is all but guaranteed.

This is going to impact elections severely. Republican controlled state legislatures are currently working on passing voter suppression in many states, but most importantly in Georgia. If these laws pass and stand, Democrats are definitely going to lose a Senate seat in Georgia, and Democrats will lose the Senate seat in Arizona. This is because these states will continue to pass voter disenfranchisement laws through their Republican trifectas, and our existing voting rights laws do not fully protect against modern voter discrimination.

If Democrats fail to pick up a seat in either Wisconsin or Pennsylvania with that guarantee (assuming we don’t kill the filibuster and HR1 fails) then we will have a Republican Senate. This is as guaranteed as anything I can project.

A favorable 2022 Senate map for the Democrats looks like this:

Scenario 2: We blow up the filibuster

The other path forward involves Democrats choosing the nuclear option. If we eliminate the filibuster we can pressure Sinema and Manchin to vote for HR1. They talk a lot of shit (pardon my technical terms) but at the end of the day they do vote with the Democratic Party more often then not. They do not want  to go down in history as the Democrats who voted against the largest expansion of voting rights in over half a century. That is not going to happen. If we do the nuclear option on the filibuster then HR1 is going to be the law of the land. This is a fact.

If we pass HR1 then next year the Federal government will have all the tools it needs to enforce vote by mail in every congressional election in every state. The modern voter disenfranchisement which is being pushed forward right now in Georgia among other states is going to be in violation of Federal Law which is currently pending in the Senate, pending nothing less than the nuclear option.

If we blow up the filibuster, African Americans will be able to vote in Georgia and North Carolina. Hispanic Americans will be able to vote in Arizona. Missouri has Cori Bush who has the ability to motivate voters to vote in Missouri, bringing Missouri into play. With mail in voting in Pennsylvania, the large African American voting bloc in Greater Philadelphia will have increased turnout. Florida has some of the most severe voter discrimination laws in the country which are in violation of HR1. North Carolina has similar laws which have prevented eligible voters from voting for no other reason but to prevent Democratic wins in that state.

A 2022 Senate map with HR1 on the books looks like this with a pro-Republican bias:

HR1 is the difference between Republicans almost certainly taking the Senate in 2022 and the Senate being a competitive map.

The only way to pass HR1 is to destroy the filibuster.

The only way to accomplish anything else in this congressional session is to abolish the filibuster.

If you believe that the Republicans will keep the filibuster in 2025 if they have a trifecta and 50 seats, than you are naive.

If we do not pass HR1, Arizona is going to pass voter disenfranchisement laws. Kristen Sinema is going to lose her seat. Joe Manchin is going to face the wrath of practically every other Democrat in congress and if he ever truly cared about anything he said about being pro-choice, and he will come on board. He has a pattern of taking the limelight as much as he can when whenever he can, but at the end of the day, he is a Democrat, and he will vote with his party.

That is 50 votes plus the Vice President. That is all we need to pass the nuclear option.